When I was married I tried to do the second wife and it only lasted so long. At first It didnt bother me but when it came down to sex that is when it bothered me. I thought it was gross to have sex with me and then have sex with her vice versa. Also I had a problem with that the other wife didnt want to cook or clean. she wasnt a good mother figure. If I could have gotten past the sex thing everything would have been ok. only if she would have been a good woman. I left the marraige because of her.